Goals for Parenting in 2025:
Embracing Growth and Connection
My mom and I often have conversations on how raising kids has changed in the last 40 years. I was raised in the country, wide open spaces and a freedom I miss. There was zero concern of what is happening in their social media.
Today, families are raising kids in suburbia – where a walk can get you to the gas station or a big box store in a matter of minutes. The freedom is different – and in some ways more dangerous. As you venture into 2025 as a parent, what are some goals you can keep front of mind to make it as successful and enjoyable as possible?
Foster Open Communication
There’s a fine line between helicopter parenting and open communication with your child in this digital age. I’ve found the less I ‘helicopter’ the more open and forthcoming my kids are with me. Create a safe environment, where your child can share they’re thoughts and experiences, regardless of they need to let out.
How do you create a safe space? Active listening without judgement — There are things my kids bring to me that make me cringe inside, but I try my hardest to not react negatively (or positively) until they’ve gotten all their big feelings out. It’s so hard, but so necessary. Ask open ended questions — be actively engaged in the conversation. Sometimes this will mean putting down your phone or muting the tv so they have your complete attention.
Encourage Life-Long Learning
Learning doesn’t stop when you graduate high school or college. Every day there is something new to uncover – whether it’s a task/project from your employer or getting to know someone’s quirks and personality. It’s important to encourage and support any interest they have, guiding them to try new experiences. This can be through books, new hobbies, and the favorite – experiments (age appropriate of course).
Prioritize Quality Time Together
This is an important one. Make it a priority to spend meaningful time together, focusing on activities that match your child’s age and interests. This can be challenging, especially when juggling the needs of more than one child, each with unique preferences and activities they enjoy. Commit to giving them your attention both individually and as a group. Plan simple moments like evening walks or family dinners, or dive into bigger adventures like vacations or collaborative projects. By being intentional and proactive, you’ll create memories that strengthen your bond and show them they’re valued.
Each of these goals allow you, the parent, to Be Present – Build Memories – Foster that Relationship that’s so important.
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